Hey bitches!! OMG don’t hit me. I know I have been super duper neglectful of my blog. Things really are just crazy right now. I’m currently in the process of applying for jobs in Atlanta so i can schedule interviews next month. I’m really really excited but at the same time, I’m scared as hell. It’s not easy moving across country. It’s even worse, doing it by yourself. But I’m hanging in there.
Okay so I have a question. One of my homegirls who I haven’t spoken to in like forever called me last night. It was so good to hear from her. But I wasn’t expecting what she told me. No names, just the story. Alright so she tells me that 2 months ago she slept with this guy who she’s been dating about a year now. So she’s telling me about their date and what not. But the next day, her ex who she’s still buddies with popped up at her house unexpectedly and they ended up having sex. So within a 24 hour window she’s had sex with 2 men. I was shocked cause it’s not like her to sleep with more than one man at a time. She’s the good girl out of our circle. LOL!! Yeah, surprise…it’s not me! She’s damn near a virgin compared to most women her age that I know.
But now, 2 months later, she hasn’t slept with either guy since cause her conscious is bothering the hell out of her. To make matters worse, she thinks she might be pregnant. 😯 !! She hasn’t confirmed it cause she’s scared to know. But she’s one of those “I Know My Body” type of women so chances are she is.
So the question is this: Would you keep it or terminate the pregnancy? She doesn’t know who the father of the baby might be because she slept with them in the same 24 hours. One with a condom and one without. AND the one without, the first man, is not supposed to even be able to have children because of a motorcycle accident 3 years ago. He doesn’t have any kids and his doctor says he has a 1% chance of being able to produce.
She asked me what I would do and I sat there frozen cause I just couldn’t imagine. I didn’t want to answer either because I’m anti-aborotion unless you’ve been raped or your health is at risk. So I didn’t want to tell her the wrong thing and fuck her mind up even more. Plus, I just don’t know. She could keep the baby but then she’d be a Maury povich guest. Or she could terminate and kill this guys one chance on having a child of his own.
What would you do?
How would you help your friend handle this situation?