Hey people! I know I’ve been extremely M.I.A. for the last 2 weeks. Things are just a little hectic right now. I’m just trying to maintain but it’s always something. I don’t wanna get into it here. So hopefully it’ll work itself out. I noticed yesterday that I hadn’t blogged since Germane passed. (Major thanks to everyone and your kind words. It really helped me get thru such a hard time. I appreciate that.) I would come to my site everyday with the intention on saying something but soon as I’d see him, I’d close my site. I’m even writing this right now in notepad just to make sure I actually blog today. It’s hard to lose a good friend like this. I have never had to bury a friend. I talk to him like he’s still here LOL I thought I was losing my mind til someone else told me they do it too.
I made a new site the other day. All you creative geniuses…artists, designers, photographers…Please join my new community forum DOPE MB. This is really important to me. I know a lot of creative people online. So I made a place for us all to chill and share our dopeness with each other. :hug:
In other news…Kimoni Graduated Kindergarten on the 10th. Look at my pretty boy.
OMG I was so freakin proud of my baby. It was the best feeling ever. And he was so proud of himself too. He smiled and giggled the entire day. Wow…I am so old. My big guy will be six this August. My how time fly’s. His dad and the siblings even managed to show up. I was quite surprised. He knew Kimoni was graduating but was waiting for an invitation to come to the service. Umm, why do I need to invite him to participate in his child’s life? But nonetheless he didn’t open his mouth all week about it. I ended up sending him a text message the night before telling him where it was and stuff. I was glad he came. Kimoni was happy. He had an excellent week until Saturday. Like all good things…they must come to an end. *sigh* Nataka is in jail. Surprised? I’m not. Not in the slightest. Disappointed yes, surprised..hell no. There’s no telling how long he’ll be in there because I’m surely not adding to the collection plate towards his $25,000 bail. HA!! Nigga please. Aww, and it was the day before Father’s Day. Way to go Dad! And that’s all I can think to say about that fuckery.
Moving right along…I’m thirsty for a new life. Something different. I really want to move out of my current apartment into a new one. I need a change of scenery. Alright..I’m doing it again. SMH Every couple of months I get bit by the new scenery bug. I start looking at houses in places I don’t plan to move to any time soon and I get lost in the thought of a new and better life. I have decided…I NEED A REAL VACATION. Not some meet & greet. Not somebodies birthday party. I need to go away to an island where I can relax in some water all day long while being fed frozen grapes and immediate refills of Parrot Bay & Cranberry Juice. Ahhh…doesn’t that sound nice. Some place I can walk around my hotel room nekkid and run out to the beach from my room and roll my way across the sand and right into the water without people taking out their cameras. *sigh* Oh my god that sounds fun. 😆 But seriously…I need a Monika-ism. Just a weekend. I don’t know where to go tho. For some reason San Diego keeps coming to mind. Beautiful beaches, minimal clubs and very small chance of me running into anyone I know. *slaps myself back to reality*
Anyhoo…I have updated my layout, and music playlist. I’m in a Neo-Soul vibe right now. So these are a few of my favorites. Enjoy!
If you go anywhere in the world…where would you go?
Would you go alone or with family?
Oh yeah…before I forget. Deon tagged me a few days ago with a Meme Fun Tag. In return I am tagging uhh..no one yet. I gotta see who’s active cause I been M.I.A.
What was I doing 10 years ago?
I was 17 and with my son’s father. Cutting school, stealing cars, breaking things, living in a girls group home and having sex. Not necessarily in that order. But you get the point.
What are 5 things on my to-do list today?
2. Clean my room.
3. Wash the rest of the dishes.
4. Clean the bathroom.
5. FInish adding things to DOPE MB.
Snacks I enjoy:
Chip & Guacamole
Things that I would do If I were a billionaire:
Buy any and everything my family and closest friend wanted and needed. I would take care of those who always looked out for me.Probably buy a couple homes and build teen group homes.